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I am a Certified Sex Therapist, Couples Therapist, and Dating and Relationship Coach. Single, married or dating, I help you fulfill your relationship goals.


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  • Sex with Stefani: How sexy are you?

    Certified sex therapist Stefani Thredgill wants to know: How sexy are you?

  • Sex with Stefani: 5 tips to keep it sexy

    Certified sex therapist Stefani Thredgill breaks down the topic of keeping it sexy. She gives you her top five pieces of advice for keeping it sexy.

  • Sex with Stefani: Keep it sexy

    Certified sex therapist Stefani Thredgill breaks down the topic of keeping it sexy, asking how you are living and how is your sex life?

  • Sex with Stefani: Things that are not so sexy.

    Certified sex therapist Stefani Threadgill breaks down the things that make your relationship not so sexy.

  • Sex with Stefani: Is porn helpful in your relationship?

    I am Stefani Threadgill and I am your sex therapist. So I want to know: Has porn been helpful or hurtful in your relationship? The truth is, whether you like it or not, people are watching porn. According to Pornhub.com, in 2016 4.5 billion hours were streamed. There are a lot of questions people have regarding porn use especially when they find out their partner is watching porn. There is fear of being replaced. There is fear of expectation to […]

  • Sex With Stefani: Sex Toys

    I am Stefani Threadgil and I am your sex therapist. Let me ask you a question: If I were to walk into your bedroom and open your nightstand, what would I find? This is Sex with Stefani and we are talking about sex toys. This is not a topic that typically comes up in conversation, so we are going to talk about it here because there are a lot of concerns and questions that come up regarding sex toys. Let’s […]

  • Sex With Stefani: Why men lose interest in sex

    Hello everyone. I am Stefani Thredgill and I am your sex therapist. Ladies, have you ever been turned down for sex? I know that I have and I was really confused. Was it me? Did I do something wrong? In this segment, I am going to break down why men lose interest in sex. We’ve all heard it, or said it: “I’m not in the mood tonight.” Stereotypically, it’s the woman who doesn’t want to get it on. But a […]

  • Sex with Stefani: Questions that have you hot and bothered

    I am always talking to you about sex, but now here is your opportunity to ask your questions. After reading some viewer emails here are a few questions that you have on your mind. The first question: how many times do people have sex in a month on average? Well, according to the research by the Kinsey Institute, people between the ages of 18-29, have sex on average of 9 times per month. 40 and up, 6 times a month. […]

  • Sex with Stefani: Roadblocks to look out for to keep you out of a rut

    When people end-up on my couch, it’s not because their relationship is hot and heavy. It’s usually the opposite: there’s problems, and if not recognized, will mean a certain break-up. The key is accepting the road-blocks that have you and your partner in a rut. So, here’s what I’m gonna do—I’m gonna ask you a bunch of questions. Think how they relate to you. Have you stopped taking care of yourself or make less effort in your appearance? Does one […]

  • Sex with Stefani: Want to have more sex? Scheduling could be your answer

    Yes… schedule. Wait, hear me out!